how to "kau" a girl...

i think this will be a good post..most guys haven't a clue what makes a girl happy and what makes her want to smack u...here's a list a group of HOTTT girls came up with during a certain slumber party...okay..some i made up...so? sue me..

1. when she's sad, be there for her...but don't push her to talk to u...don't try to cheer her up by making lame jokes...when a girl is feeling down...nothing will bring up her mood until she's ready...just be a friend...don't pressure her...and DON'T make her feel guilty for not talking to u about her problems...

2. respect her...and appreciate what she does for u...that includes a thank u...

3. easy...smile.... =D most girls will fall for a smile...think sweet...not "eeewww...he's leering at me!!!"

4. listen to what she says and please....try to remember when she tells u something...u never know when the subject might come up again...imagine how insulted u'd feel if she forgot what football team u like...

5. if u're sure she likes u...when u go out to a movie with her, *aloooone*...hold her hand la...she's waiting for u to make the 1st move...don't so blur blur, can or not...?

6. DO NOT TRY TO IMPRESS HER WITH UR MACHO-NESS...!! 1st of all, girls don't impress easily...and if they do, u don't want to have to put up with the pressure of keeping her impressed...secondly, what makes u think that they'll only like u for ur talents? MAN cannot live on TALENT alone...be urself...if u succeed in getting her, u'll want her to like u for who u are...

7. do not talk about other girls in front of her...it's just not cool...u won't like it if the girl of ur dreams looks at hotter guys and goes, "Man, he's hot...!!" would u? nope..didn't think so...

8. call her once in a while...so she'll know that u remember her...

9. make her laugh...this does not fall under the category of impressing her though...make her laugh by having a sense of humour...don't take things too seriously...and when she makes jokes....laugh at them...*no matter how bad they are, okay*...

10. stand up for her...when people put her down or make a cutting remark about her, stand up for her...*this is the sure winner*

so good luck to everyone..!! i hope the guys will post up something about what guys look for in a girl...hey..i'm giving out trade secrets here...the least u could do is post up a list too...chris? ben? shawn? anyone?...c'mon...be fun la...

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